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Friday, September 4, 2020

Flashback Friday Post


In which I randomly select a year, a month and a post 
to look back upon


January 8, 2016


Introvert or Shyness?

After my post "Vogue Introverts" that I wrote on 6/6/2015 I had a several discussions with someone who is much more knowledgeable on the issue of introvertism than I am, so I'm redoing this post for more factual and truthful information. 

Friday, August 28, 2020

Flashback Friday Post

 

In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


January 8, 2016


Words of Wisdom (From Cinderella Week 2016)



Something pretty for Cinderella Week.

Friday, July 10, 2020

Flashback Friday Post


In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


June 30, 2014


Cooking Fast and Fresh With West!

Misha Collins (Supernatural) and his son, West, have this adorable YouTube cooking show that is basically a dad having a good time with his son.

 It's absolutely hysterical and West is sooo adorable!
Episode 1

Episode 2

Episode 3 - Thanksgiving Feast

Dear God, Please let my future husband be like this!!!

Friday, March 27, 2020

Flashback Friday Post


In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


April 7, 2012

Happy Easter!


"Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, 
and they know what you have sent me. 
I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be found in them."

~John 17:25-26

The card reads: 

Top: A peaceful happy Easter

Bottom: Peace be unto you, I pray. God's sweet peace this Easter day


Friday, March 20, 2020

Flashback Friday Post


In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


June 9, 2015

Second-Girl Syndrome


L-R: Kate, Chloe Sullivan, Felicity Smoak, Eowyn
Yes, they all happen to be blondes...but I love 3 out of 4 of them.
     I'm going to be honest and say, I hate, hate, love triangles. They are usually shallow, melodramatic and really deter from the actual storyline. When it's a girl between two guys then it's equal on both sides. However, when it's a guy between two girls, it's an ugly situation, In most girl-guy-girl triangles, you have the preferred girl who usually gets all the hate and then you have what I've termed, the 'second-girl.' The girl madly in love with the guy who doesn't notice her and spends all her time pining over him. Originally, I called it Eponine syndrome, but due to Eponine's life in the story, she needs some sympathy (at least she got her own song). 

     The four characters I have listed below are all examples of second-girl. I hate Kate (BBC's Robin Hood), however, Chloe (Smallville), Felicity (Arrow) and Eowyn (Lord of the Rings) are all great characters. Sometimes their roles as the second-girl adds to the story, sometimes it's in their character development, but then the role can also be put upon them by fan's perspectives. Sometimes the second-girl gets the guy, like Felicity and temporarily Kate, and sometimes the girl gets a guy better suited for them, like Chloe and Eowyn, but however their story might end, the second-girl is one of the most difficult characters to write and they can either make or break the story.

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Kate (BBC's Robin Hood)

     Brought in for the final season of Robin Hood, Kate was created to replace Marian (who was killed) and Djaq (who went back to the Middle East) and she had potential to be a great character, but the writers absolutely destroyed her. Kate is a peasant girl living in Locksley where she meets Robin Hood. She starts off with immediate dislike of Robin by first blaming him for her brother's death and then when she is rescued by him and Allan, she is completely rude and ungrateful. When another woman (who is absolutely terrible) walks into Robin's life, Kate is suddenly in love with him. Although, instead of just telling Robin how she felt about him, Kate was immature, childish and rude the entire time. She completely defined the second-girl syndrome with her pitiful and selfish personality and she only got worse as the season dragged on. 

     The writers were trying to create another Marian, but it just didn't work. They made Kate too feminist and too independent. Once she becomes part of the group, she thought she could be the queen bee and get Robin to herself, but Robin has his eye on Isabelle Gisborne and pays no attention to Kate in the beginning. She deserves it though for how she treated Robin. Season 3 was actually a very good season, but Kate almost ruined it.

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Chloe Sullivan (Smallville)

     Now, to be honest, Chloe is a regular teenage girl who is talented and brilliant, but her crush on Clark Kent was really damaging to her character in the first 2 seasons of Smallville. Chloe has been in love with Clark since she first met him in 7th grade. Although Clark values her as a friend, he has been madly in love with beautiful and popular Lana Lang since he was 3 years old. Because of Clark's feelings for Lana and his ignorance of Chloe's feelings for him, Chloe tended to treat Lana badly in the beginning of season 1. Overtime, they became friends, but Clark was constantly coming between them. Lana couldn't help the way Clark felt about her, but she was always bearing the brunt of Chloe's anger. The hurtful part is that as friends, Chloe and Lana are great together,

     Chloe's problem (like Kate) is that she never came out and told Clark how she felt about him. So instead of telling him, she burdened Lana with her grief until it almost tore the two girls apart. So, needless to say, Chloe was very annoying in seasons 1 and 2 of Smallville and I really had a hard time liking her character. By season 3, Chloe has matured quite a lot and realizes that Clark will always just be her friend. When she comes to the realization, her friendship with Lana becomes much stronger and they really become an inseparable duo till Lana's departure in season 8.

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Felicity Smoak (Arrow)
      I really do enjoy Felicity as a character, but she was never suppose to be a series regular. After her first appearance in season 1, fans and producers liked her so much that they hired Emily Bett Rickards to continue her role as the brainy computer whiz. Cool, awesome, she was another Chloe Sullivan...but then they had to go and put her in a love triangle. Now there's nothing wrong with Felicity being in love with Oliver, but I felt that being the second-girl distracted from her character at times. She's an absolute genius with a heart of the purest gold (and is really the only sane character on the show), but I felt that the writers somewhat rushed the Felicity/Oliver relationship and all fans saw her as was 'the better girl for Oliver.' She has so much more to offer the story in the beginning.

     While Felicity is in love with Oliver, Oliver, himself, is conflicted with the two Lance sisters. Neither one of them deserve him. In all actuality, Felicity is the only woman in the show that deserved Oliver, but I felt that only reason she was doing the work she was doing was only for Oliver. If someone else (with the same reasons as Oliver) asked her to to work underground for them, I don't think Felicity would jump immediately at the opportunity. Now, Felicity does end up with Oiliver in the end, but I hope fans appreciate her more than the girl who was in love with her boss.

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Eowyn (The Lord of The Rings)

     Tolkein in a stroke of genius, wrote the character of Eowyn as a woman ahead of her time. Strong, fierce, beautiful and intelligent, Eowyn is the epitome of what a true adventure heroine is. Yet, in the midst of all her strength must be a vulnerable weakness and that happens to be her love with Aragorn. Of course, Aragorn is in love with Arwen, but what bothers me isn't so much the love triangle, it's the fan's perspective of both women in the story. Eowyn is a hero because she can swing a sword and ride into battle, so maybe she's a better match for Aragorn. Arwen, on the other hand, must make the hard decision of leaving Middle Earth with her people or risk her immortality and stay with Aragorn, so that makes her boring and unimportant. 

     Somehow, people think that because Eowyn fights in battle, she's the better of the two women. That because Arwen is a more subdued and tranquil, she is weak and serves no purpose. Eowyn may get the sympathy vote because of her hard life with her dysfunctional family, but does that make her more deserving than Arwen who had a happier life? Both women are equally strong and important. Eowyn is the point of reference for her family and Rohan, and Arwen is the center of all of Aragorn's most complex decisions in his life. 

Friday, February 14, 2020

Flashback Friday Post: Valentine's Day Movie Special


Instead of randomly choosing a post, I'm going to post two movie reviews that I've written.
Both of these movies are favorites of mine and are absolute must watch for any romantic at heart.

Ever After

 This is my absolute favorite movie and I have never reviewed it! It seems Cinderella Week is the best time do so. I saw this great film when I was about 7 or 8 years old and completely fell in love! It's a definite family favorite and even my brothers enjoy it. Probably what I loved the most about Ever After is that story in itself seemed very real. Every character in the story is real and personable in some way. Danielle's early childhood loss of her father and neglect and mistreatment from her stepmother, Henry's refusal to accept his position as the future king of France, Jacqueline's torn loyalty's between her mother and sister, and her friendship with Danielle, even Rodmilla's conflicting feelings are brought to light in a heartbreaking scene between her and her stepdaughter.  Ever After's extraordinary storytelling of a young woman's journey from servant to queen, darkness to light and despair to salvation rings true for any human heart.

Danielle's journey from servant to princess.
     When eight year old Danielle de Barbarac loses her father, she is left in the care of her new stepmother who wants nothing to do with her. Ten years later, eighteen year old Danielle is a servant in her own household that is deeply falling into debt and ruin. For her stepmother, Rodmilla de Ghent and her two daughters, vain and cruel Marguerite (her mother's favorite) and quiet, reserved Jacqueline they rely on the help of Pierre Le Pieu, a wealthy benefactor who has his eye on Danielle. 

     One day Danielle has an unfortunate meeting with the handsome, but rash Crown Prince Henry who is running away from his home, his life and his subsequent future as the next king of France. Danielle is rewarded for her silence with a great deal of money that can help her release her friend Maurice from being sold to the America's. While attempting to free Maurice later that day, Danielle once again runs into Henry in the palace courtyard and impresses him and the other courtiers with her educated mind and knowledge of decent human dignity. 

"So let me believe that I am someone else"
     Henry himself is equally impressed by such a young women and sets out to find out who she is. Danielle pretends to be a wealthy courtier from out of town and evades him by giving him her mother's name and proceeds to disappear. Meanwhile, Henry has issues to hammer out with his demanding father, King Frances, regarding his future as king. When his son balks at the idea of an arranged marriage, Francis makes a compromise and tells Henry that he has one week to find true love or he will make Henry's arranged marriage official at the masquerade ball he is throwing in honor of the artist in residence, Leonardo da Vinci.

     When Rodmilla receives the news of the impending ball, she wastes no time in preparing both daughters (primarily Marguerite) by any means necessary to catch the crown prince. Meanwhile, Henry and Danielle, who still has Henry believing she is a wealthy courtier, are thrown together in more unexpected (but hilarious) circumstances and in a very short space of time find themselves falling in love. Henry believes he has found true love and plans to make Danielle his wife.

     However, that's easier said than done and Rodmilla sets out to destroy Danielle in any way she can and to have Henry make Marguerite his wife. Through trial and triumphs Henry and Danielle eventually find themselves together, happily ever after, proving that the road to love is never easy, but if it is real, then it is always worth the sacrifices that life requires from us. 


     Considered the best retelling of the beloved fairy tale, Ever After has every traditional genre for everyone. History, comedy, drama and romance are all fused together to create this delightful love story. While the historical accuracy regarding the royal family of France may be off, it makes lovely portrait of the needed equality between royalty and the common man. The costumes are absolutely stunning and rich in detail. I loved every single gown that Danielle wore and this film is a definite must for any costume drama lover. 

     No matter how many times I re-watch this movie, I find myself falling in love all over again. While admiring the beautiful heroine, laughing and crying through the crown princes' coming of age story arch, loathing both Rodmilla and Marguerite, forever believing that Henry's parents are completely awesome and hoping that everyone will have friends as loyal as Danielle's and Henry's. Ever After is the story of the human heart that breaks, heals and finds the courage to love, forgive and above all live, not for one's self, but for all others around you.

A United Kingdom

 I have always believed that the best kind of stories are the real life ones we have never heard of. Then upon discovering theses true accounts we are left with a sense of amazement and shock that we were so ignorant of their existence. Especially when they changed the world. The 2016 film A United Kingdom is based on the extraordinary interracial marriage of Prince Seretse Khama of Botswana, Africa and Ruth Williams of England. History and romance are weaved together in a beautiful, heartbreaking and ultimately happy ending testimony of black v white, Africa v England and family v family that is utterly unforgettable. 


     In 1947, London, young Seretse Khama seems to be an ordinary law student from South Africa. In complete truth, Seretse is heir to Bechuanaland and future hope to the Bamangwato tribe. Seretse and his younger sister, Naledi, were orphaned as children and raised by their uncle Tshekedi Khama who acts as regent of Bechuanaland until Seretse is ready to take his rightful place as king. 

     Seretse has a great deal of pride for his royal heritage and an overabundance of love for his close family and strong people. However, Bechuanaland is under English Colonialism and ranks as the third poorest country in the world. The English living in apartheid South Africa rule the country with no regard to the natives of the land, seeing them as subhuman and 'savages' in need of saving. Seretse faces smilar prejudices and racism while in England and believes that there can never be unity between the two polar opposite people groups. 

      All those doubts dissipate when he meets Ruth Williams, a shy, but intelligent young typist who sees the world as it can be if people look past the exterior. Seretse is immediately taken with Ruth and her with him. They soon begin a secret whirlwind romance which leads to Seretse asking for Ruth to marry him. While Ruth immediately accepts, her family does not accept the relationship giving them no choice but to disown their own daughter.


     Matters only get worse when Seretse returns to his home to find his own family furious at his choice of bride which causes conflict between Seretse and his uncle, and division of the tribe. England doesn't waste time in trying to separate the young couple and soon Seretse is exiled from his country. Ruth must cope with a hostile tribe and a new baby on her own. Overtime she not only wins over her sister-in-law with her kindness and respect, but eventually the whole tribe who want her stay and fight to bring her husband home.

      Seretse and Ruth are finally reunited together, but changes must be made to secure their union is accepted by all. Seretse ends his kingship and declares the Bechuanaland is no longer a monarchy, but a free republic with the will to become a modern country to be ruled by a modern people. Seretse becomes the first president and together he and Ruth transform the once poor and destitute Bechuanaland into the Republic of Botswana. 


      Botswana is now a thriving country with a rapidly growing economy and has one of the highest standards of living in South Africa. Seretse's and Ruth's marriage changed their country and shook the world, but it was not without sacrifice and suffering. I found Ruth's name to be interesting as her own story is quite similar to that of Ruth in the Bible and her famous words, "Where you go I will go." A true testament of God's neverending truth in the lives of his people. 

     A United Kingdom is a wonderful film that opens your eyes to a history you may not have known of before, but leaves you thankful that it happened. Sereste's and Ruth's love story went beyond their own love for each other and flowed into the hearts of both Africans and the British. They found the strength to challenge the powerful, the hope to unite a proud tribe and the courage to end prejudice and hate.

Friday, May 17, 2019

Flashback Friday Post



In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


July 4, 2015

Happy 4th of July!
Happy 4th of July!!

In the beauty of the lilies Christ was born across the sea,
With a glory in His bosom that transfigures you and me.
As He died to make men holy, let us die to make men free
While God is marching on.

~Julia Ward Howe

Friday, May 10, 2019

Flashback Friday Post


In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


February 6, 2012

Downton Abbey Confession #4
My God, this is a gorgeous man!
Dan Stevens as Matthew Crawley
I think I may have mentioned that more than once on here...but hey, the truth still remains.

Friday, May 3, 2019

Flahback Friday Post

In which I randomly select a yeara month and a post 
to look back upon


May 20, 2012

What were the total odds??
I'm actually going to see Endgame tomorrow!!
I'm swear this was completely picked at random!

The Avengers

The Avengers (2012)
    I've never been a big comic-book, superhero fan. I've always left that to my older siblings (and my best friend, yeah, you know who you are). Although, I've always liked Batman and X-Men, but that's about it. So, when I went in to see The Avengers last week, I really didn't know what to expect.

Here's what I gathered from the characters:

Thor: All brawn, no brains.

Loki: All brains, no common sense.

Clint Howard/Hawkeye: Dark mystery man who never smiles.

Natasha Romanov/Black Widow: Pretty, practical, and pragmatic with no sense of humor.

Dr. Bruce Banner/Hulk: Comic book version of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

Capt. Steve Rogers/Captain America: The nickname says it all.

Tony Stark/Ironman: Well...lets just say there's no one else in the world like Tony Stark and he'd probably be the first one to tell you that.

Then, I saw it again and seeing it a second time I was really able to get a better understanding of the characters, their personalities, their gifts (or curse), and their constant struggle to be accepted into society without being made to conform.

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Thor
Chris Hemsworth as Thor
     Big, blonde guy with a big hammer. The legend of Thor has always been something of a running joke in my family because we're German/Scandinavian and there's a lot of blonde haired, blue eyed people. So, I've really had a hard time taking the character of Thor seriously. He actually annoyed me at first, but eventually I grew to like him. He's courageous, compassionate, and honorable. What I found most endearing about him was how he constantly seemed to be fighting for his brother and not against him. I mean that by saying, he was willing to look past the damage that Loki had done, forgive him for his wrongs, and have him come home. He was fighting his brother in hopes of possibly saving him. Of course it doesn't work, but even at the end of the movie, Thor has not given up on his brother.

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Clint Barton/Hawkeye
Jeremy Renner as Clint Barton/Hawkeye
     I didn't know anything about this character, but he definitely had the strong silent type personality. Which was kind of a relief. Especially when compared to the six other men in the Avengers who couldn't shut-up long enough to let anyone else speak. Throughout most of the story, he's under a spell-like trance caused by Loki. After a really hard kick in the head, he comes out of it and is immediately overcome with guilt by the destruction he helped cause. Underneath all that hardness really is a gentle, almost caring side to him.

And I got to admit, he's pretty easy on the eyes in his own simple, rugged, handsome way.

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Natasha Romanov/Black Widow
Scarlett Johansson as Natasha Romanov/Black Widow
     I'm always a little skeptical when it comes to bringing a single, beautiful, female superhero in the midst of men. I had the idea that she was going to be a hard ass, alpha female, who had this 'my way or the highway' attitude and was in constant competition with all of the other men. I didn't see any of that. Natasha was a great character, with a certain vulnerability about her. She genuinely cares about who she works with and is a fierce believer in what the Avengers stands for.

     Now, it's made very clear that Natasha is not a saint. She's a former assassin and spy. And she hopes by helping save her friend, Clint Howard/Hawkeye, while he's under Loki's control will help redeem herself from her hard past.

In the end she does find redemption and the courage to forgive herself for her past wrongs.

~ ~ ~

Dr. Bruce Banner/The Hulk
Mark Rufallo as Dr. Bruce Banner/The Hulk
     To be honest, I found him the most interesting out of all of the characters. Normally Bruce comes off as this awkwardly shy doctor who is a little reluctant to talk about 'the other guy' or his alter ego the Hulk. And when the other guy comes out...he goes all out. I loved how Bruce was constantly aware of his condition and his accountability to keep himself under control was pretty deep. When he does turn into the Hulk, he gets scary, like really scary. 

     Originally brought on to help with finding the tesseract (the little glowing blue cube that's caused all this trouble), eventually it comes to the point where they really do need the Hulks help. His one duty? Smash. Everything that doesn't need to be there...and to be Thor's smashing partner.

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Capt. Steve Rodgers/Captain America
Chris Evans as Capt. Steve Rogers/Captain America
     I mean this in all honesty when I say that off all the movies that have been made of these characters Captain America is the only one I've seen. I liked it. It was interesting and totally peaked my curiosity of seeing The Avengers movie itself. As cheesy as his name is, Captain America is the embodiment of what America once was. A child of the WWII generation, the war the defined the American patriotic spirit, Steve still has the passion for peace that was there seventy years before. He also really is the only normal one out of all of the Avengers. Or maybe he still has his mind back in the 1940s, but either way, his calmness and immediate leadership in the midst of the destruction is a definite need not just for the civilians, but also for the Avengers themselves.

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Tony Stark/Ironman
Robert Downey Jr. as Tony Stark/Ironman
    I just watched the first Ironman movie last night and so I was able to get a better understanding of Tony himself. If you've seen Captain America you'll know that Tony's father, Howard Stark was one of Captain America's companions and held him in high regard. Well, his son holds very few people in high regard. With the exception of his secretary/girlfriend, Pepper Potts (played wonderfully by the lovely Gwyneth Paltrow) and Dr. Bruce Banner who speaks in his scientific language, Tony really makes no attempt to get along with anyone who disagrees with him, most especially his father's old friend.

     Desperate times call for desperate measures and when they do call, Tony is willing to suit up and fight along his almost-might have been adversary, Captain America. He goes the extra mile for everyone. Even if it means inviting Loki into his house, becoming Chitauri monster bait, and taking a missile out of earth.

So, he's the mouth of the group, but what he has to say is normally worth hearing.

~ ~ ~

Nick Fury
Samuel L. Jackson as Nick Fury

     The boss, the creator, the bad-ass leader who believed in peace and justification. Nick Fury has no actual superpowers, but he does have a dream, actually he has many dreams. Nick brought the Avengers together for the sole purpose of being the plan when all other plans fail. Nick's dream almost fails, but when given the Avengers the right push, they eventually are able to accomplish what Nick originally had them brought in for. Sometimes we have dreams for ourselves and sometimes we have dreams for others. I think the latter proves to be the better of the both.

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Loki
Tom Hiddleston as Loki

     What a creep. Yeah, that's just about it. Loki had the stereotypical storyline of the angry, vengeful, adopted brother who was trying to take over the world to beat out his seemingly perfect older brother. He's as cowardly as Thor is brave, as cruel as Thor is compassionate, and as hateful as Thor is forgiving. After a while you begin asking yourself "Is Thor just wasting his time on him?" Loki is a slave to himself and the only way he can see any redemption is by enslaving all mankind. The scene with him in Germany is an incredible example of what hatred and revenge does to a person's soul. Sometimes you almost find yourself feeling sorry for the guy. The keyword is sometimes.

All in all, Loki was a pretty incredible villain who definitely got his comeuppance at the end of the story.

~ ~ ~

Courage is Immortal
 (tagline from the Thor movie) 
The Avengers
This really was a good movie. I began to see one residual theme throughout the film. Overcoming a guilty past. 

Natasha's past as a spy and violent fighter.

Clint's association with Loki (even thought it wasn't his fault).

Thor for failing to be a better brother.

Steve believing that he could have saved more lives if he had been stronger person.

Bruce for simply being himself.

And of course Tony has no faults to be guilty about : )

All of these very different people with very different powers and abilities, but are still susceptible to human failure and weakness. To me, that's what makes a hero. Forgiving yourself for a wrong lived past is far more powerful than taking out a mass load of giants.

Extra perceptions and superhuman powers mean absolutely nothing if you don't have a reason for using them. Fighting for a better world, protecting the weak, and defending the rights and honor of all mankind (Good God, I am beginning to sound like Captain America) is a far better use of ones abilities than using them for their own selfish gain.

Even superheroes need a lunch break.