Saturday, August 31, 2019

D.C. Trip 2019


     At the beginning of August my sister and I took a 3 day trip to Washington D.C. Even though I've lived only 4 hours away from the capitol my whole life, I've never been there. It was a wonderful trip! I visited Arlington, Smithsonian, including The National Air and Space Museum, The American Art Museum, The Museum of American History--The Library of Congress, the Washington Monument, the Lincoln Memorial, the Jefferson Memorial, The Korean War Memorial, The Vietnam Veterans Memorial and The Holodomor Memorial.



Arlington is so vast that it's impossible to document everything, 
but I did get some great pictures of the Kennedy Memorial.


Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis 

President John F. Kennedy and
 his infant son Patrick Joseph

Arabella Kennedy 
John and Jackie's stillborn daughter

Robert Francis "Bobby" Kennedy

 Edward Moore "Ted/Teddy" Kennedy

Joseph P. Kennedy Jr. 
The oldest Kennedy child who was killed in WWII


 The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier

The Smithsonian







The Capitol and The Library of Congress








The WWII Memorial

     Of course what I have here doesn't scratch the surface of my complete documentation of the trip, but most of it was also videos that I'm not able to post. Also, it was good to just put down the camera and enjoy the views.

    When we weren't visiting historical landmarks we were riding the metro station...constantly! We also went out to several interesting restaurants, Old Ebbit Grill which was near the White House and a wonderful dumpling joint in Chinatown. 



     The best and most unexpected of all was meeting my best friend! My friend, Celeste and I met online back in 2007 and for over ten years we have been trying to meet each other! She's originally from Maryland, but moved to Arlington several years ago. Due to our busy schedules, we aren't able to talk as much and so it never dawned on me to tell her that I was coming to D.C. When I started posting pictures and videos of my trip on my Instagram, she was floored that we were coming to D.C. and we were both finally able to meet! It was incredible!


Saturday, August 17, 2019

Sherlock - Season 4


     The fourth and final season of Sherlock wraps up with one very intense theme. Family. When we first meet Sherlock and John, they were both alone. John had no close relatives and Sherlock...was well Sherlock. He didn't get attached to people, showed no sentiment and allowed reason and deduction to take the place of generosity and kindness. Then John appears and he brings together a small family made up of him and Sherlock, Mrs. Hudson, Molly Hooper, Greg Lestrade and eventually John's wife, Mary and their daughter. 

     Over the course of the series, Sherlock begins to shift in his opinions of the world and the people in it. The fall from St. Barts showed his absolute love for his friends, meeting Mary showed his ability to accept change and he is slowly coming around to accepting his growing celebrity status in London. However, Sherlock has many addictions and demons. And his addiction to 'the game' will become his greatest demon. It's how he controls that demon by still remaining a good man that will alter and ultimately save the lives of the family he has grown to love. 

Episode 1 - The Six Thatchers

     As punishment for the murder of Charles Magnussen, Sherlock was going to be sent out of the country to work on a case in Eastern Europe. However, the most unexpected happens. Moriarty shows up...all over London and Sherlock's Eastern plans are cancelled. As usual, Mycroft and the government are all scrambling as to how Moriarty is still alive and what his plans for Sherlock and John might be. Sherlock takes a slightly more calm approach to the situation and believes the best thing he can do is wait and continue his work. Dead or alive, Sherlock knows Moriarty and his terrorist group better than anyone. 

     Meanwhile, John and Mary welcome the birth of their daughter, Rosamund. Although, hesitant at first, Sherlock becomes attached to his new goddaughter, which only reinforces his love for the growing Watson family and his vow to always protect them. During his waiting game, Lestrade presents Sherlock to the most bizarre case. After a car is hit and explodes, officers find a one week old corpse inside. 


     While interviewing the family, Sherlock comes across something infinitely more strange. The family has a special dedication table to former prime minister Margaret Thatcher. Yet, something is out of the ordinary about this table that is covered with pictures and memorabilia. The family informs him that there was a plaster bust of Thatcher centered on the table, but a robbery had taken place a few days before and the bust was destroyed. Sherlock digs deeper and soon finds out that all over London there are break-ins to private homes. All these homes have one thing in common; the same replica bust of Margaret Thatcher that ends up destroyed.

     This case takes an absolute shocking turn when it points to Mary Watson and her former life as a agent/spy/assassin. Prior to meeting and marrying John, Mary had been part of an elite group of agents that were sent on the most dangerous and deadly missions. After a botched assignment in Serbia, Mary was thought to be the only agent that got out alive. However, one of her former members did survive and blamed Mary for leaving him to be tortured by Serbian terrorists.

    After years of trying to settle down into a normal life, Mary now realizes that her past has caught up with her. Sherlock, is not deterred by any of this and continues to keep his vow to protect the Watsons. Yet, Sherlock should know that the past cannot remain hidden forever; and when lies and secrets are revealed, the truth comes at the most devastating cost.

Episode 2 - The Lying Detective

     Sherlock Holmes has found himself in many dark places, but the death of a loved one sends him literally to the darkest parts of hell. When Mary is killed, John blames Sherlock for breaking his vow to protect them. Cutting off all communication, John wants nothing more to do with his former best friend. Truly heartbroken by this, Sherlock turns to his drug addiction to cope with this triple loss (three including Rosie Watson). Both men are falling at a rapid rate, John in his grief and his refusal to accept Mary's death. Sherlock at his failure as a detective and a friend. 

     While on a drug high, Sherlock gets a visit from Faith Smith a client who claims that her father, wealthy philanthropist, Culverton Smith, has admitted to killing someone. However, her father made this confession to her and a group of friends while they were drugged up on a new medication and she has no idea who this person was. When Sherlock gets somewhat clearheaded he sets out to put Culverton in the news as a serial killer. 


     John reluctantly assists Sherlock in this bizarre investigation that has both men face to face with the menacing Smith. While at a hospital that Culverton funds, he reveals to both men his oftentimes sadistic nature and his love of the dead. Sherlock's still drug addled mind believes that he has caught him in confessing, yet is shocked when he finds out that Faith Smith never went to his flat and told him about the case at all. Furious at Sherlock's insolence, stupidity and lack of self respect, while also holding him responsible for Mary's death, John lets loose on Sherlock. All his pain, rage and fear put onto the one man he thought he could trust.

     Yet, John comes across an unexpected message that was meant for Sherlock. And in this message is a case, possibly Sherlock's hardest case. "Save John Watson. Go to hell Sherlock. Pick a fight with an enemy. Do all of this for John." Sherlock has literally gone to hell and back all for the purpose to save his friend. And for John to be saved, he must save Sherlock from the murderous hands of Culverton Smith. 

Episode 3 - The Final Problem

    There's an East Wind coming....and that wind comes in the form of Eurus Holmes. The thought to be dead sister of Sherlock and Mycroft Holmes. Unknown by almost everybody, including Sherlock himself. For years Sherlock had no knowledge or memory of his sister who left when he was six years old. Mycroft relays to him who Eurus was, her extreme intelligence, but also her growing sinister side. When Eurus kills Sherlock's beloved dog and then proceeds to try and kill Sherlock, she is sent away to an asylum. Several years later she set fire to the asylum and was proclaimed dead. Or that that was the story that Mycroft told everyone.

     According to Mycroft after Eurus killed Sherlock's dog, Redbeard, Sherlock went through intense trauma. Slowly he began to forget his sister all together and for some reason, his family never thought it important to remind him of her at all. For years, Eurus has been sheltered on an maximum security island with other lunatics. Kept away from her parents knowledge of her, Mycroft uses Euros' intelligence for government profit in spite of her insane and sadistic nature.


     In The Lying Detective, Eurus has broken free and wants to see Sherlock again. She wants to play a game, test Sherlock's intelligence and his emotional context. When Eurus is found by Mycroft and sent back to the island, Sherlock, John and Mycroft tread the dangerous North Sea to see her. Sherlock meets his sister, who has the capability to be beautiful and even charming. Yet, it doesn't take long for him to witness her ability to manipulate and use people.

     Eurus is controlling the entire asylum and she sends her brothers and John through hellish challenges that will test their deduction skills and their own humanity. To save his friend, Sherlock must uncover foggy memories of a past long forgotten and in the process he saves Eurus as well. Sherlock may have won the game, but he now sees Eurus no longer as the lunatic killer, but as the lonely little sister craving her brother's love and affection. He may not have been able to save Mary, but he will work tirelessly to bring his own family back together.

     And so life moves on for Sherlock and John. They rebuild their former flat, raise John and Mary's daughter, continue to care for Eurus, take refuge and love with their extended family of Mrs. Hudson, Molly and Lestrade and do what they do best. In Mary's final message to them, she deducts them both in absolute Sherlockian perfection:

There is a last refuge for the desperate, the unloved, the persecuted. 

There is a final court of appeal for everyone

When life gets too strange, too impossible, too frightening, there is always one last hope. 

When all else fails there are two men sitting, arguing in a scruffy flat. Like they've always been there and they always will. 

The best and wisest men, I know. 

My Baker Street Boys.

Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson.


Here's my Sherlock Pinterest board!




     

Sunday, August 11, 2019

Period Talk (You know...that kind of period)


    It's that time of the month. Mother Nature is making her rounds, bringing with her heavy bleeding, cramping, headaches, exhaustion and an insatiable appetite for anything sweet. To top all that off, my Mom made pizza and my salty cravings are hitting an all time high as well. The annual celebration of my body rewarding me for not being pregnant has come and will be gone by the end of the week. Getting your period can be a misery, but getting it when you have to go into work on a Sunday just adds to a new level of "Why God??" Then I got home, showered and actually feel quite pleasant (until tonight comes. I tend to bleed heavier when I'm asleep).

    In all my time on Blogger (8 years this year), I don't think I've read a post about menstruation from any of the people I follow. It's not really a taboo subject in society anymore. And while periods can well and truly suck, I don't think that complaining about them really does anyone any good at all. Menstruation is the one of the biological factors that unites all women together; our bodies simply functioning as God created us to be. It's a young girls natural transition into womanhood. And lets not lie, there's quite a double standard when it comes to attitudes about the monthly cycle.


     Women whine, moan, cry and feel absolute despair with the onset of menstruation. Yet, will rejoice when it announces that there won't be a new addition 9 months down the road. And I'm primarily referring to cases when they allowed irresponsibility to take hold instead of moral common sense. Certainly not in cases of rape, where a woman was victimized and had no choice.

(And lets be honest, the idea of 'accidental pregnancy' is practically laughable and shouldn't even be a term at all. If you have sex, there's a 50% you'll get pregnant. Science and fact.)

    I started my period when I was very young. I had just turned 10 and at the point in my life, I certainly wasn't ready, but nature thought otherwise. My first several years were miserable though. My cramps especially were so terrible, I was almost ill. Then when I was diagnosed with epilepsy and put on medication, my periods were shorter because the medicine was a partial birth control. I still get heavy bleeding and horrible cramping, but thankfully it's over in 24 hours. I usually don't have very bad mood swings, but I'm tired all the time and I tend to get bad headaches. All in all, I think I fare better than a lot of other women out there. 


     I'm a very organized person. When I get frustrated I start cleaning and putting things into order. Knowing that there is a system and a way to keep to that system is satisfying for me. For a long time, I was completely unorganized when it came to the planning of my periods. I had a tracker of course, but all my products were shoved in my drawers and I could barely reach them. Or I would be completely out of products and would have to borrow from my sisters.

    I finally took the initiative to create a period or hygiene basket. I keep it close by and when I notice I'm getting low on products, I buy and restock before my period hits.



     The basic feminine products including Summer's Eve wipes for those nauseating menstruation smells. I highly recommend those wipes too. They smell wonderful and you do feel clean afterwards. I also keep a set of disposable razors and an extra toothbrush (you're suppose to get a new toothbrush every three months). I keep this hygiene basket on my shelf and I'm able to just grab a pad and the wipes without having to dig through my closet or my drawers. Keeping my razors in there as well has been helpful too.

     Now onto the portable period pack. Way back when I was still a teen, I was reading the Lily Series and in one of the books, they hit on the topic of getting your period. It was suggested that all girl's carry a portable period pack with them. Ever since I read that book, I've always kept one with me.




     Pretty much the same as the hygiene basket, but just kept in a convenient makeup bag that can be carried in your purse. And it's definitely a lot easier and less conspicuous to take a little period pack with you to the bathroom, then having to risk explaining why you're taking your purse. This cute pack (from Wal-Mart in case you were wondering) is about the size of my hand, but I can fit a great deal into it. I keep a medicine case fill with ibuprofen that usually helps with he cramping and headaches and a couple of the Summer's Eve travel wipes. That's all you pretty much need when you're away from home. 

     And it's also great to have when helping someone else. Women supporting women : )

     Mother nature can be cruel and heartless at times, but we are what we are. Menstruation is the one factor that all women can truly be on the same page. We all understand the sickness, the misery, the attitude changes and the constant question "Are you on your period?" when we are remotely angry about anything. Accept it, love it and never regret and never be ashamed of being created as a woman.